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Italia311
11-18-2005, 09:52 AM
This morning my girlfriend msg'd me on MSN at 9:29am. I went to msg her back exactly 1 minute later but she went off line.

So, I call her house and her friend answers. She goes to my girlfriends room and gets her. My girlfriend picks up the phone and yells at me because I call the house too early. I called my girlfriend to wish her luck on her calculus "midterm" and she yells at me. Good. Great..whatever. Her reasoning is that other people in the house are sleeping. She says to me that she thought I had more respect then that.

So, How early is too early? When someone that you're calling is awake in the house, if they just msg'd you on msn, wouldn't you expect them to answer the phone if they were awake? I think the people who are sleeping are being selfish! Who are they to say when I can and cannot call? Last but not least, I know I wouldn't yell at my girlfriend before the other person hung up the phone. So wheres the respect?? HM??

k sorry..end of rant.

the_offsprings_monkey
11-18-2005, 09:55 AM
Seems a bit out of order, but if you love her you'll put up with it lolz.

<<Angry Kid>>
11-18-2005, 09:56 AM
No offence...but your girlfriend is a biatch :/ you deserve better

the_GoDdEsS
11-18-2005, 09:58 AM
People are fucking retarded. Sorry, but she just overreacted stupidly. I think it's still better calling early than calling late. The guy who used to be my stalker would find the phone number of my parents and call them at 10pm asking where I was, two times a night. Even though I did not live at home at that time. All because I was not answering his calls on my phone. I never did. And he'd call like 30 or 40 times a day. That went too fucking far. Harrass my family, bitch and you'll get so much shit from me you''ll leave teary eyed. And yes, I almost did make him cry and broke the tough bitch he thought he was.

Vera
11-18-2005, 10:04 AM
I don't get your gf's logic.. It's "too early", people are asleep ...so she decides to YELL at you. Seriously, which is gonna wake people up better, her phone ringing OR her yelling at you on the phone?

Bitch, please.

Maybe she had a bad day and took it all out on you. Happens in relationships, still a sucky thing to do.

I don't mind being woken up by a phone call because usually when someone calls me in the morning, I should've been up by then anyway. Though if mum disturbs some fantastic dream I was having with a "wakie wakie!"-call, then I'll be pissed, but mostly because the call is not very important and the dream was nice.

So in that sense, there's no "calling too early" and yeah, better too early than too late.

Italia311
11-18-2005, 10:11 AM
Seems a bit out of order, but if you love her you'll put up with it lolz.


Funny thing is, I been wit her for almost 4 yrs, and this isn't the first time she has flipped on me for some rediculous like this. I always just let it blow over because its not worth it. But this time she embarassed me infront of her friends.


@Goddess: It was stupid. And, calling the rents 400x is friggin fucked. So weird.

I said to myself, I'll never date and Italian chick because they're fucked. Now, I dunno know if its just italians... Dun dun dun...

@Vera: Ma, she's always stressed. Whatver right? Just gotta deal.

It may not be a big deal to some people but, I never yell at my girlfriend, or embarass her infront of my friends. Probably why Im so angry. Fucking Mangia Cake..lol

the_GoDdEsS
11-18-2005, 10:11 AM
Dude, 9:29am is not early when you've been up for Christ's sake.

Italia311
11-18-2005, 10:18 AM
I dunno. When I lived at home, people would call my house constantly when I was sleeping. MY Nonna and my Zia every morning. When family calls or your BF calls, give a little slack ya know?

I honestly think its cause shes not Italian. Seriously. Hear me out, anyone in my family can do something wrong and even though I know they're wrong, I will still back them up no matter what. SO, when your boyfriend calls, everyone can FUCK OFF, cause its your bf, not a fucking phone sales guy..

the_offsprings_monkey
11-18-2005, 10:19 AM
Funny thing is, I been wit her for almost 4 yrs, and this isn't the first time she has flipped on me for some rediculous like this. I always just let it blow over because its not worth it. But this time she embarassed me infront of her friends.


@Goddess: It was stupid. And, calling the rents 400x is friggin fucked. So weird.

I said to myself, I'll never date and Italian chick because they're fucked. Now, I dunno know if its just italians... Dun dun dun...

@Vera: Ma, she's always stressed. Whatver right? Just gotta deal.

It may not be a big deal to some people but, I never yell at my girlfriend, or embarass her infront of my friends. Probably why Im so angry. Fucking Mangia Cake..lolItalians love to shout, I know this Italian family and god every time I'm in there place I leave with a headache.

Italia311
11-18-2005, 10:21 AM
Last time my brother sister and mom came to visit me, we went out for dinner, and I swear, we yelled at eachother the whole time. Honestly. But it's love...ya know?

the_offsprings_monkey
11-18-2005, 10:24 AM
Last time my brother sister and mom came to visit me, we went out for dinner, and I swear, we yelled at eachother the whole time. Honestly. But it's love...ya know?
Yea, I asked my mates dad, "why are you guys so loud" and his reply was " wel this is just us talking, if we was shouting the roof, she'd bea shaking"

Italia311
11-18-2005, 10:26 AM
Aahahahahahaha True.

the_offsprings_monkey
11-18-2005, 10:34 AM
But I have to say, the Italians cook some really good food.

Back in Black
11-18-2005, 10:35 AM
Seems a bit out of order, but if you love her you'll put up with it lolz.
Do you love your girlfriend.

the_offsprings_monkey
11-18-2005, 10:49 AM
Do you love your girlfriend.
What do you think?

Back in Black
11-18-2005, 10:51 AM
What do you think?
I think you want to kill her.

Italia311
11-18-2005, 10:53 AM
Why are you posting in here? What are you offering to the conversation?

Back in Black
11-18-2005, 10:55 AM
Why are you posting in here? What are you offering to the conversation?
I have to offer my knowledgable information that I have.

the_offsprings_monkey
11-18-2005, 10:58 AM
I think you want to kill her.
Umm then you're wrong, be with her an love her forever was the correct answer.

Back in Black
11-18-2005, 11:01 AM
Umm then you're wrong, be with her an love her forever was the correct answer.
you're only 15. There is no such thing as love at your age.

the_offsprings_monkey
11-18-2005, 11:06 AM
you're only 15. There is no such thing as love at your age.I'm 16, also you're what 17 and a hideous monster to women, what would you know?

Back in Black
11-18-2005, 11:07 AM
I'm 16, also you're what 17 and a hideous monster to women, what would you know?
I'm 18. I am an Adult, so fuck off.

ninthlayer
11-18-2005, 11:12 AM
Adulthood is not decided by age. Wishomie, you're a fucking child.

the_offsprings_monkey
11-18-2005, 11:12 AM
I'm 18. I am an Adult, so fuck off.
You don't behave like an adult.

Back in Black
11-18-2005, 11:13 AM
You don't behave like an adult.
no, not on these boards or around friends. But I act like an adult around my family.

the_offsprings_monkey
11-18-2005, 11:17 AM
no, not on these boards or around friends. But I act like an adult around my family.
Umm well you have no right to speak then, run along and wank to porn now young child.

Back in Black
11-18-2005, 11:17 AM
Umm well you have no right to speak then, run along and wank to porn now young child.
porn is disguesting.

the_offsprings_monkey
11-18-2005, 11:20 AM
porn is disguesting.
This is coming from you... :eek:

the_GoDdEsS
11-18-2005, 11:27 AM
wishomie's a completely lame loser when it comes to sex and relationships. And he acts like a 13 year old.

Preocupado
11-18-2005, 11:30 AM
on topic: man, i'd just tell my gf to go fuck herself in that situation. honestly!

the_offsprings_monkey
11-18-2005, 11:32 AM
on topic: man, i'd just tell my gf to go fuck herself in that situation. honestly!
Ah yea the modern man, the fuck an chuck type right?

Preocupado
11-18-2005, 11:35 AM
nah, it's just a maturity thing as i saw the situation. You call her to wish her luck and be nice and she bitches you out.
Nothing better than a "go fuck yourself then" on that.

Betty
11-18-2005, 11:43 AM
First off, 9:30 is not "early", and I am not a morning person at all. The only time it could maybe be considered early is Saturday... the universal sleep-in day. True early phone calls are before 6 AM and the only ones like that I've ever received are generally news that somebody is sick/died.

That's just the way society functions. The 9 - 5 day. So if somebody chooses to sleep in or stay up late, they just have to work around that. People have lives to lead. They have to get up at 7, get ready for school/work, and yes, maybe receive phone calls. If somebody calls and wakes you up, just go back to sleep, and if you can't then get your ass out of bed (I can sleep through anything, fortunately).

Italia311
11-18-2005, 01:44 PM
Thats true betty - 9 - 5 life. Thats how I feel, thats why I called.

Anywho, she called me a couple hrs ago and said she was sorry. SO really, it wasn't a big deal, I just wanted to know what everyone else thought. Thanks for the replies.

p.s - its snowing, and for some reason, its making me really happy. I don't know why, but it feels like christmas.