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Sunny
11-19-2005, 11:58 AM
This whole BBS relationship drama got me thinking. So, for those who are or have ever been in a relationship...

Are/were you "allowed" to check out other people? Point out/comment on other people's good looks? Watch porn? Is your partner allowed to do the same? Or are those things off limits and a cause of problems? Why, why not?

C'mon I'm real curious.

T-6005
11-19-2005, 12:00 PM
I never figured it was a bad thing to look at other people, or for the other to look at other people. As for porn - I don't have much of an opinion on that. I don't see why it wouldn't be alright, though.

Commenting on other people's looks is fine, as well - unless you're dating someone that's going on about this other guy incessantly. Then I could potentially see a problem developing.

the_GoDdEsS
11-19-2005, 12:01 PM
I'm totally up for checking out other people on the street, both guys and chicks. And commenting on them together. I wouldn't get annoyed if somebody I'm with looked at other people. I'd join. Dude, it's just looking. Porn definitely yes, unless it's lame porn. =P

_ߥ_vil_
11-19-2005, 12:02 PM
I'm not bothered. Only if it was taken into action.

Neither is my boyf.

[Warning] Nimrod In Town
11-19-2005, 12:03 PM
This whole BBS relationship drama got me thinking. So, for those who are or have ever been in a relationship...

Are/were you "allowed" to check out other people? Point out/comment on other people's good looks? Watch porn? Is your partner allowed to do the same? Or are those things off limits and a cause of problems? Why, why not?

C'mon I'm real curious.

I could check people out. So can Allison. We can point out comment on other people's look. We can't watch porn.

Sunny
11-19-2005, 12:05 PM
yah, I know a lot of people in relationships who are not allowed to watch porn. Why not, though? Is it because its considered cheating?

[Warning] Nimrod In Town
11-19-2005, 12:06 PM
I don't know...why. I want to ask her now.

T-6005
11-19-2005, 12:10 PM
yah, I know a lot of people in relationships who are not allowed to watch porn. Why not, though? Is it because its considered cheating?
Couldn't you apply that to masturbation, then? In some ways?

Sunny
11-19-2005, 12:13 PM
I know people who do, hah. Or who consider masturbation cheating UNLESS you're thinking about your partner.

Many women feel like they don't live up to porn stars, appearance and performance-wise, so it could be a big insecurity thing - they're probably worried the guy is going to want to do the kind of things he sees in porn with the kind of girls he sees in porn.

[Warning] Nimrod In Town
11-19-2005, 12:14 PM
Hmm, that maybe it. But , if i do, i'll never tell her i've been watching porn or masturbating.

the_GoDdEsS
11-19-2005, 12:15 PM
All the couples I know enjoy watching porn together. And I think it can be inspiring. Duh. Unless you're sensitive and insecure and feel inadequate after watching all those huge dicks and tits.

T-6005
11-19-2005, 12:15 PM
That makes sense - although forbidding masturbation unless the other is thinking about you seems ridiculous and WAY overly possessive. Thoughts DO drift in and out of one's head, I mean... seriously, come on.

_ߥ_vil_
11-19-2005, 12:16 PM
Many women feel like they don't live up to porn stars, appearance and performance-wise, so it could be a big insecurity thing - they're probably worried the guy is going to want to do the kind of things he sees in porn with the kind of girls he sees in porn.
I was going to say that.

[Warning] Nimrod In Town
11-19-2005, 12:19 PM
All the couples I know enjoy watching porn together. And I think it can be inspiring. Duh. Unless you're sensitive and insecure and feel inadequate after watching all those huge dicks and tits.
That'll be awesome.

Sunny
11-19-2005, 12:19 PM
T-600 - Yeah, it's hard for me to wrap my mind around. It's like.. THOUGHT POLICE!

Sunny
11-19-2005, 12:22 PM
All the couples I know enjoy watching porn together. And I think it can be inspiring. Duh. Unless you're sensitive and insecure and feel inadequate after watching all those huge dicks and tits.

I agree, it can be fun. Sometimes it's like "wow, that's a good idea!". Or sometimes we crack up cause it gets ridiculous. I dunno, I have no desire to look like women in porn, so their huge tits and bleached blonde hair don't make me feel bad in the slightest. Nor do I feel my performance is inadequate. But I do understand how some girls could feel bad, especially if their partner is an asshole about it and fuels their insecurity.

Vera
11-19-2005, 12:32 PM
I think it's ridiculous that some people find masturbating while thinking about someone else cheating.

Like, okay, if it's some person from real life, who you also have feelings for, then that definitely seems close to cheating to me but not what someone gets off on when they're alone isn't really all that important. Most people fantasize about strangers when masturbating, anyway. Or celebrities/models, not people they know. And fantasies can be a whole other realm of expressing your sexuality - stuff you'd never do in real life, with people you'd never do it with in real life. So why try to limit what your partner thinks when masturbating? You can't, anyway.

I think the porn insecurity also has to do with some people's unhealthy attitude toward porn. They don't view it as a stimulant to sex, they see it as "What sex ought to be" which is like watching films and thinking "this is what life should be". Porn is essentially just acting sex. It can work as a stimulant, a folder for ideas to try out in bed with your partner but if it's like, "My gf should do everything a porn starlet does!" then of course it's going to become a problem in the relationship.

Betty
11-19-2005, 12:32 PM
I couldn't fathom the concept of being in a relationship where those things were not allowed. Like, it wouldn't even be an issue, that's how silly it is.

I think there's way too much emphasis put on "physical cheating" or anything visually-related as opposed to mental cheating. I don't care about who my guy thinks is hot or who he jerks off to but if either one of us isn't 100 % into seriously being with one another, that's when things get shaky.

sKratch
11-19-2005, 12:40 PM
I know people who do, hah. Or who consider masturbation cheating UNLESS you're thinking about your partner.

Many women feel like they don't live up to porn stars, appearance and performance-wise, so it could be a big insecurity thing - they're probably worried the guy is going to want to do the kind of things he sees in porn with the kind of girls he sees in porn.
wtf? women don't live up to porn? Men are the ones who are expected to be like the energizer bunny or something.

Sunny
11-19-2005, 12:43 PM
i don't know that many girls with perfectly tanned/toned bodies, big firm boobs and long hair who are enthusiastic about giving head and would let guys cum on their faces/boobs after they bang them in the butt.

T-6005
11-19-2005, 12:44 PM
Amazing how I don't feel like doing most of that in the first place.

ninthlayer
11-19-2005, 01:01 PM
Cheating with fags is allowed, right Sunny?

Sunny
11-19-2005, 01:03 PM
yes, duh.

...

Little_Miss_1565
11-19-2005, 01:03 PM
Are/were you "allowed" to check out other people? Point out/comment on other people's good looks? Watch porn? Is your partner allowed to do the same? Or are those things off limits and a cause of problems? Why, why not?

C'mon I'm real curious.

Oh, yeah. To all of the questions. It's an opportunity to be able to show how secure you are in what you have with your partner, plus get to check out someone else's fine ass.

Watching porn with your partner is FUN FUN FUN. ;)

ninthlayer
11-19-2005, 01:04 PM
yes, duh.
So when is it going to happen?

Sunny
11-19-2005, 01:06 PM
when the fag in question grows a penis long enough to reach this island.

or gets his ass over here on a plane, either way.

ninthlayer
11-19-2005, 01:07 PM
Summer two kay six, for serious.

Nina
11-19-2005, 01:08 PM
"Are/were you "allowed" to check out other people?"

That is a difficult thing to answer; anybody who would even TRY to forbid it is a fucking unworthy asshole that should be shot. The question is probably how the partner felt when you did it? And well...usually, the big insecurity thing was always in the way. Whenever I mentioned that certain people (even celebrities, or similar) are attractive to me, because of their physical appearance only, everyone started to flip at me. I mean come on. If you arent able to see that other people except your partner CAN be attractive, you are probably blinded by your "love".

"Watch porn?"

...however, PORN was never a problem. Kinda funny, eh?

"Is your partner allowed to do the same?"

I dont mind it if my partner told me that he finds certain people attractive. I am always willing to talk about looks (kinda girly, no?) because I find that topic very interesting. It's quite interesting to figure out what your partner, or any other close person for that matter, finds appealing. It could give you ideas and make you want to improve your looks.
The problem starts in the moment your partner tries to change your looks/your character activly. That's just wrong.

Sunny
11-19-2005, 01:13 PM
Summer two kay six, for serious.

it's a date, then. i'm already excited for hand-holding and unlubed buttsecks.

ninthlayer
11-19-2005, 01:25 PM
Sounds excellent, hopefully you'll ANSWER YOUR PHONE.

wheelchairman
11-19-2005, 01:25 PM
Cheating with fags is allowed, right Sunny?
According to Tizz. ;)

Sunny
11-19-2005, 01:30 PM
Sounds excellent, hopefully you'll ANSWER YOUR PHONE.

in fact i was planning on calling you later tonight when my phone-related inhibitions are lowered by a good amount of merlot!! assface.

by a good amount i mean like 2 glasses. ha.

Vera
11-19-2005, 01:32 PM
I want a Sunny call omg.

ninthlayer
11-19-2005, 01:33 PM
Hmm, Merlot. I'll remember that one.

its one fine day
11-19-2005, 01:39 PM
my gf came back from holiday once and talked of a "fit lad" she met

ninthlayer
11-19-2005, 01:40 PM
If by 'met' you mean 'fucked.'

its one fine day
11-19-2005, 01:44 PM
hope not...

ninthlayer
11-19-2005, 01:44 PM
Trust me, boned.

Izie
11-19-2005, 01:52 PM
Okay, an actual reply to the original question :p

Checking other people out, for sure, as long as it's followed by commenting together.

And what is the problem with porn exactly? If I'm in a nasty mood I'll just make mean comments about whichever part of it sucks (and there can be MANY) and then I'll giggle as I ruin the male's enjoyment, but under normal circumstances, pr0n is good!

And as far as fantasising and masturbation go, I'll just agree with Sanni and Betty and say that if it's actualy someone REAL that you actualy want to get it on with, it's a problem. But I guess that problem comes more from your own relationship being bad (which is why the partner wants someone else in the first place, no?) than from your partner thinking of someone else while jacking off.

Think if it this way, (s)he could also be thinking of someone else while sleeping with you. Is this cheating? Or only if it's an actual real person (s)he can actually get? Hmmmz.

Betty
11-19-2005, 02:51 PM
If it's one of those "wtf, why did I just have a sex fantasy about so-and-so" moments, that's totally fine. Or even a "Hmm... I wonder what so-and-so would be like..." moment, that's fine too.

It's just when you actually aren't satisfied with your partner and seriously consider other people that it's a problem. And even this can be part of a healthy relationship, but it's a problem when it continues for a long period of time instead of just being a brief "oh, I sorta like this guy, but nah, not anymore, I've realized Mr. Current Lover is still the love of my life".

xaylene
11-19-2005, 02:54 PM
Pffft! who cares if your b/f or g/f masterbates or checks out other ppl. as long as they are coming home to you at the end of the day it shouldn't matter.

the_GoDdEsS
11-19-2005, 03:07 PM
Master Bate. Yeah, we all fuck Master Bate.

Everyone stop misspelling masturbate. It's irritating.

[Warning] Nimrod In Town
11-19-2005, 03:22 PM
After reading this thread i feel even more sad Alison doesn't want sex 'till she's married. :(

0r4ng3
11-19-2005, 04:06 PM
Nimrod In Town']After reading this thread i feel even more sad Alison doesn't want sex 'till she's married. :(
People still do that? That's just sad.

ninthlayer
11-19-2005, 04:11 PM
People still do that? That's just sad.
stfu (sad faces)

[Warning] Nimrod In Town
11-19-2005, 04:13 PM
People still do that? That's just sad.

It is very sad! For me, atleast.

Chevelle
11-19-2005, 04:18 PM
This whole BBS relationship drama got me thinking. So, for those who are or have ever been in a relationship...

Are/were you "allowed" to check out other people? Point out/comment on other people's good looks? Watch porn? Is your partner allowed to do the same? Or are those things off limits and a cause of problems? Why, why not?

C'mon I'm real curious.

Do I post too much?
for the first two questions, yes.
watching porn? :) I did watch porn and I dont think she knew about it. Never talked about it. I dont think she watched porn. Chicks rarely do. (I guess, correct me if I`m wrong) I would have allowed it though. No problems because of porn. Talking about porn is a tabu, so it`s very unlikely to become a problem.

ninthlayer
11-19-2005, 04:23 PM
How is talking about porn taboo?

Chevelle
11-19-2005, 04:27 PM
it is around here.. aint it there?

Sunny
11-19-2005, 04:30 PM
Where are you from?

Oh and girls do watch porn. trust me.

Rag Doll
11-19-2005, 04:32 PM
Yeah. I have a "look, but don't touch" policy in relationships. I do get annoyed if a guy I'm dating can't admit another guy is goodlooking though. And I like watching porn with people I'm dating. Alone is fine too...but I like watching together =p.

Chevelle
11-19-2005, 04:41 PM
why, do I look like a tourist?
I always wondered how my page history cleared up all by itself like my gf told me..
:) but I dont think she was watching porn.
ou, I`m from finland. And I`ve no idea what I`m doing here writing on this forum.

Just a Girl
11-19-2005, 04:45 PM
me and my boyfriend actually like discussing who the other finds attractive. if i find someone attractive i'll tell him straight away, and vice versa. and if i see someone i think is particularly pretty or particularly unattractive and bimbo-ish, i'll ask what he thinks to get a male's opinion. sometimes it does lead to a bit of argy-bargy because for some reason i get annoyed when he finds someone attractive when i think they're vile, or doesn't think someone i think is pretty is attractive. but that's more to do with me always having to be right than anything else.

if someone else makes comments about either of us, we don't get possessive. my boyfriend even says he likes it when people find me attractive, because i'm his and he's proud to be with me. i feel the same way when someone finds him attractive.

anyway, that was much longer than i meant it to be. so yes, we are allowed to look at/comment on other people. i think this doesn't cause problems because we both understand that being in a relationship doesn't stop you from finding other people attractive. smothering someone and trying to keep them away from any other person they might find attractive is shows that you don't trust them.

and yes, porn is also allowed, though not generally needed :p

Nicole
11-19-2005, 05:55 PM
Hmm. In my relationship talking about ex's is a bit of a no-go zone although it does happen on occasion. Ex's seem to bring out the insecurities in both of us.

As for checking out other people, saying that somebody else looks nice or ridiculous is okay.

Watching porn together is something else we've recently started to do. I found out he kept his porn away from me because it caused friction in his last few relationships. Now he's so over the moon we seem to have gone into porn overdrive. I think we're now making up for years of porn oppression from other girlfriends or something.

Sunny
11-19-2005, 05:59 PM
sometimes it does lead to a bit of argy-bargy because for some reason i get annoyed when he finds someone attractive when i think they're vile, or doesn't think someone i think is pretty is attractive. but that's more to do with me always having to be right than anything else.


hahah, i am exactly the same way.

Just a Girl
11-19-2005, 06:05 PM
isn't it irritating? he doesn't think natalie imbruglia is pretty, and i think she's so lovely looking, but he thinks that dog-faced actress kirsten dunst is. oooooooooooooo it makes me mad.

Sunny
11-19-2005, 06:07 PM
i was so pissed when he said ashlee simpson is attractive. ugh. FUMING. same with uhh whatserface. jennifer garner! bitch looks like a horse. ugh.

and he doesn't think drew barrymore is all that pretty. the bastard.

and pshh natalie imbruglia is totally cute.

platinumpt
11-19-2005, 06:08 PM
Very interesting. I don't have much to add to all of this, except for one thing:

In one of my former relationships, me and that specific exgf actually watched porn together. And we didn't mind if any of us watched porn "individually". However, she'd become very upset if she caught me checking out other girls, on our university. Girls with clothes. I think that's weird, considering that she didn't mind that we watched all that porn stuff.

Oh, and everytime I mentioned that a certain actress looked good on a specific movie, a fight would be coming right up. You should've seen her pissed off when I talked with her about Catherine Zeta Jones.

Just a Girl
11-19-2005, 06:20 PM
ashlee hook-nose simpson?! and not drew barrymore?! i can't believe you married him :p hehehe.

sometimes i get really unreasonable about it. i once got so pissed that i told him i was ashamed to go out with him seeing as he obviously had such low standards. luckily he is used to my odd temper and just made fun of me.

Sunny
11-19-2005, 06:34 PM
he obviously likes big nosed people, hell he likes me ;p

i could suffer ashlee simpson, i guess. but jennifer garner has the biggest jaw i have ever seen. it makes me want to run run run far away. its huge and threatening. bah. wtf.

i get more annoyed about it than i should, so i relate to what you're saying.. heh.

wheelchairman
11-19-2005, 06:39 PM
The world knows tizz has terrible taste. So that's no secret.

I'm drunk. This is totally culpa responsibility. Ask Dush what that means.

JohnnyNemesis
11-19-2005, 06:42 PM
and he doesn't think drew barrymore is all that pretty. the bastard.


I've noticed that every female in the world thinks that Drew is insanely gorgeous.

This baffles me, as I think she's ucking fugly. Seriously. And don't get on my case about it either, because I friggin' have bruises over saying that in the past.

Rag Doll
11-19-2005, 06:44 PM
I actually don't think Drew is that attractive. hm.

Sunny
11-19-2005, 06:47 PM
personally, i've noticed that most girls think Angelina Jolie is the most beautiful woman ever... Drew Barrymore isn't anywhere as popular.

and pshh, your taste sucks. =p

Betty
11-19-2005, 06:51 PM
...argy-bargy... I love that... it's fantastic.

Drew Barrymore is one of those a-typical/cool personality types of pretty. I think people think she's pretty in a "unique" way, y'know?

There was this one girl that me and my ex both knew from first year rez and we both thought she was the hottest ever. But most people disagreed with us. That's pretty random. But the point is: we checked out guys and girls together all the time. It was fun. I showed him a pic of the guy I have a crush on and he said "whoa, he's hot".

[Warning] Nimrod In Town
11-19-2005, 06:55 PM
My girlfriend got mad and said "It's not right for your boyfriend to be watching porn, Richard!". She hanged up. I actually asked her. :(

JohnnyNemesis
11-19-2005, 06:59 PM
personally, i've noticed that most girls think Angelina Jolie is the most beautiful woman ever... Drew Barrymore isn't anywhere as popular.

That's another one they always mention, and it's just as annoying, because I disagree there too (her eyes are too light. I like girls who don't look like they're zombies). But she's not mentioned neeeeeeearly as often as Drew!


Drew Barrymore is one of those a-typical/cool personality types of pretty. I think people think she's pretty in a "unique" way, y'know?

I think what annoys me about her is that she's always thought of that way, but when you think about it, she's really the exact opposite. Her appearance is incredibly typical, and she's "unique" in the most common way possible. Kinda like how guys getting an earring is rebellious in the most conformist way imaginable.

Sunny
11-19-2005, 07:04 PM
but she's so cute with her dimples and chub and wavy hair and oooomg that little smirk!! rahh zomg so freakin cute.

i totally have a crush on her, don't i. oh well.

JohnnyNemesis
11-19-2005, 07:24 PM
Yeah, but bah.

The four of you discussing this very issue (you, JaG*, Betty, Rag Doll) are each hotter than her. By far.

*She's so hot that it's kind of unfair to compare anyone to her though.

[Warning] Nimrod In Town
11-19-2005, 07:32 PM
Yeah, but bah.

The four of you discussing this very issue (you, JaG*, Betty, Rag Doll) are each hotter than her. By far.

*She's so hot that it's kind of unfair to compare anyone to her though.

Are hotter than who?

Sunny
11-19-2005, 07:55 PM
Drew Barrymore, apparently. >_>

Betty
11-19-2005, 08:17 PM
This is me having a retarded thought...

Mags... looking at your avatar next to Rick's... it looks like you're getting ready to make out. From the wrong sides, though.

And I think yours may just be too hot for the BBS to handle.

JohnnyNemesis
11-19-2005, 08:20 PM
^We're not getting ready to make out, but our avatars totally are. zomygoodness!

Nina
11-19-2005, 11:57 PM
- Drew AND Angelina are freaking hot
- as are certain other people
- I still get irritated when people get jealous over celebrities
- Sunny has an awesome avatar

Izie
11-20-2005, 02:05 AM
I don't really like Drew :(

I really do like Angelina, but I like others better :p

Sunny DOES have an amazing avatar.

And I agree with what Betty posted after I posted my reply. And with arguing if I like someone and the person I'm with doesn't and/or vice versa :p

Tizzalicious
11-20-2005, 02:07 AM
The world knows tizz has terrible taste. So that's no secret.

I'm drunk. This is totally culpa responsibility. Ask Dush what that means.

That was pretty random =P

As for the topic: I think all these things should be okay. Porn & Masturbating, definitely. Checking other people out, also, unless they would be doing it ALL the time of course, and wouldn't talk about anything else and would make you feel completely insecure because of it, and wanted you to change, and would make you feel like you aren't weren't good enough.

Masturbating while thinking about someone else: like someone else said, depends on who it is, if it's someone he knew, I really wouldn't like that. But otherwise it'd be okay I guess. Though I wouldn't really be happy about it :p

Sex while thinking about it is something else though, that's just a no. That would make me feel really bad.

Vera
11-20-2005, 03:35 AM
Angie is fucking beautiful but she's beautiful in the sort of way that kind of terrifies me. It's like I'm almost certain she sucks blood out of swans to look that way.

JoY
11-20-2005, 06:55 AM
Sunnies -I'm allowed to check out other people. so is he. we tease each other, though. if one makes the other even slightly a bit jealous, than he/she gets it back smacked in the face. hehe. sometimes I even say something like "wow, she's gorgeous, isn't she Huib?". that's basically asking for trouble, because of course no answer is right, but in reality I'm really fine with any answer. he sometimes asks me, when a guy seems to be successful with the ladies; "what, is he good looking, or something?" & then I don't hesistate to say the truth.

we sometimes watch porn together & I bet he still watches his old porn-collection sometimes too. I'm totally fine with it. I think it's rather healthy. the guy just has a sex-drive, thank GOD. as for me.. I don't watch porn much. I barely ever watch it by my own, like really almost never, unless I come across porn & I'm in the mood. the porn I watch, is what we watch together in tipsy/horny moods. it always gives us new ideas on 'how to do it' next.

I sometimes get nervous when Huib talks with a girl over three minutes. why? because he hardly ever does, so I tend to look into it too much. he doesn't mind when I babble/talk/laugh/flirt with guys (so I try to do the same the other way around), but when he feels he needs to protect his territory, he sure as hell makes sure he mingles in the conversation between me & the guy, untill the guy walks off. or he just starts being touchy-feely with me, which always works.

JoY
11-20-2005, 07:05 AM
i don't know that many girls with perfectly tanned/toned bodies, big firm boobs and long hair who are enthusiastic about giving head and would let guys cum on their faces/boobs after they bang them in the butt.
SO fucking true. I always feel like, "jeez.. uhm.. she's looking quite fucking sexy". but then Huibert says something like, "yeah, & also like a major fucking slut/whore" & then I'm all happies again. besides, he's right. I'm not a pornstar, I'm his freaking girlfriend. so I just keep in mind I never had a boobjob, never got extensions, never work out, never got a pussy-beauty-treatment & still look pretty alright. sure, I can't fuck while standing on my hands with one leg in my neck, but like ANYONE in real life would expect you to.

but have you seen the dicks on those dudes? ouch. I mean, OUCH. I bet that kind of size wouldn't even fit into me. brrr.

JoY
11-20-2005, 07:09 AM
I forgot to mention that I actually AM very enthousiastic about giving head.

something about porn that always cracks me up to no end, even if I'm totally in the mood; girls, who make sounds, like they're playing a fucking game of tennis. I sure as hell make noise when shagging, but like -that-??! I dun think so.

the_offsprings_monkey
11-20-2005, 07:19 AM
If I even talk to a girl kim will go mad, but for some reason she don't mind me talking to 'some' girls on the BBS. :confused:

Chevelle
11-20-2005, 07:54 AM
interesting.

Drew B.. her smile looks as if shes on crack. Some of her pics are hot, but that doesnt mean she`s normally that hot. She looks the kind of girl you`d bang and then never call on her.

Angelina J.. unnatural boobs, unnatural lips. And her gun is bigger that mine.
so, no thanks.

JoY
11-20-2005, 10:51 AM
there's something about Drew Barrymore. she isn't particularly beautiful, but there's just *something* about her. her image screams "sex", I suppose, which makes her kind of sexy.

personally I find Penelope Cruz to be one of the most beautiful women out there.

.:SMASH:.
11-20-2005, 10:58 AM
If I even talk to a girl kim will go mad, but for some reason she don't mind me talking to 'some' girls on the BBS. :confused:
my gf doesnt mind me hangin out with other chicks because she can trust me and she knows i love her

T-6005
11-20-2005, 11:04 AM
there's something about Drew Barrymore. she isn't particularly beautiful, but there's just *something* about her. her image screams "sex", I suppose, which makes her kind of sexy.

personally I find Penelope Cruz to be one of the most beautiful women out there.
Since we're back on Drew Barrymore.... I find her quite unattractive. Well, not really unattractive... just not actually ATTRACTIVE. And I really don't get what people see in her. At all.

As for Angelina Jolie... she's pretty scary. Attractive as hell, but in a really odd way that sort of makes me uncomfortable.

JoY
11-20-2005, 11:25 AM
I agree on both. I only like Drew, because her looks scream "sex" & I like sex. oh right, & because she has a rather unique face. I like that. but I don't find her particularly attractive at all.

Nina
11-20-2005, 01:22 PM
...really not?!

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v191/ninilein/c1844d85.jpg

JoY
11-20-2005, 02:00 PM
mmm, that's one hell of a picture of her. rarr. as I said, there's something about her. she has an unique face & her appearance is sexy. but still, that's about it for me.

T-6005
11-20-2005, 02:02 PM
I don't know - I don't find her sexual, personally. She seems more accessible than the run-of-the-mill hollywoodian. That's about all I'll say.

the_GoDdEsS
11-20-2005, 02:03 PM
Dumb street whore impression to me. Not hot and not sexy.

JohnnyNemesis
11-20-2005, 02:04 PM
...you don't like dumb street whores? :(

Tizzalicious
11-21-2005, 12:54 AM
I don't think that picture is hot either. I really nhave no idea if I think she is hot or not. Usually I think not. But then sometimes I think...Hmmm, yeah. But usually I think "naaaaah". So I think it's a no.