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darkpretender189
12-13-2005, 06:51 AM
my friends always want to do things with me and i dont want to. and my bf broke up with me for no apparent reason. what should i do about this? if you want more details just send me a message.

honey
12-13-2005, 06:59 AM
What do your friends want to do with you?

BATWT
12-13-2005, 07:02 AM
it's time for brutal honesty for this;

i'm male, and knowing blokes as i do (as i am one) i can say that even though it appears no reason, the chances are is because he got bored with the whole relationship. and rather than be patient and try and sort it out he chose the easy option and ended it. either that or he's found someone else and didn't want to be technically cheating on you so he broke up with you leaving him a (fairly) guilt-free chance with the other person. either THAT or he's just an asshole. i don't know about the guys in this board but this is how the male psyche works. it's how it works with me and every other male i know anyway.

and the thing with your friends, everyone gets that feeling. it's what psychologists call "can't be arsed". sometimes all you want is to just hang out at home by yourself. everyone needs "me" time.

innit.

i doubt that i have been helpful but hey, thats what i think

BATWT
12-13-2005, 07:03 AM
What do your friends want to do with you?

:eek: :eek:

honey
12-13-2005, 07:04 AM
Hahah, you have a very dirty mind. I didn't mean it that way, of course.

BATWT
12-13-2005, 07:08 AM
yeah, yeah :rolleyes:

honey
12-13-2005, 07:08 AM
Depends on what sort of friends she has, doesn't it? :p

BATWT
12-13-2005, 07:10 AM
very, very close friends i should imagine

honey
12-13-2005, 07:12 AM
They're called Fuck Buddies, my friend ;)

BATWT
12-13-2005, 07:15 AM
you speak truth bud

honey
12-13-2005, 07:17 AM
Still we didn't help her. But we can't tell her why her bf dumped her, she should ask him. And she should tell her friends to leave her alone for a bit. Problem solved.

BATWT
12-13-2005, 07:21 AM
another problem solved

honey
12-13-2005, 07:27 AM
Clooosed :rolleyes:

BATWT
12-13-2005, 07:29 AM
next problem!