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Insert Coin
12-19-2006, 10:48 AM
I know this isnt the place to ask these questions but...

there's this girl at school, she's beautiful, and hangs out with the "cool" girls. and although she hangs out with the populars shes very nice.

to the girls:

what's a good way to make her like me. she knows me... we've talked... but we're not even friends.

is a secret admirer nice, or creepy? if so, please tell me. i know it sounds dumb but theres nobody else i can ask this to. all my friends are retards.

Little_Miss_1565
12-19-2006, 10:51 AM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1dmVU08zVpA

But seriously. You can't "make" anyone like you. And yes, secret admirers are creepy. If she likes you she'll talk to you.

Lodat225
12-19-2006, 10:54 AM
Obviously, this isn't the place to talk about those stuff. Moron.

Tizzalicious
12-19-2006, 10:55 AM
You would know, wouldn't you?

Lodat225
12-19-2006, 10:58 AM
You would know, wouldn't you?

Wha? What are you talking about?

H1T_That
12-19-2006, 11:01 AM
there's this girl at school, she's beautiful, and hangs out with the "cool" girls. and although she hangs out with the populars shes very nice.



Implying she's cool gives the impression you're not, or don't see yourself as cool. No self confidence = fail. Also, if you have the view that she is somehow socially above you, you won't get anywhere. Think of her as your equal and conversation will flow easier.



all my friends are retards.

Then why are you friends with them? Or do you mean they are actually disabled?

Lodat225
12-19-2006, 11:02 AM
Then why are you friends with them? Or do you mean they are actually disabled?

HAHAHAHAHA.

Mota Boy
12-19-2006, 11:20 AM
Secret admirers can be either nice or creepy, depending on the extent of the infatuation, but she can think that it's "nice" without being attracted to you.

There is no way to get any specific girl to like you, and to be blunt, if you're asking for such advice on the internet, you're probably in trouble. The best advice sounds cliche, but that's exactly because it applies to everyone: just be yourself. Do what you like because you like it and don't attempt to mimic anyone else. In the long run, this will work out for you.

Unless you're a nerd. Then you're just screwed.

JohnnyNemesis
12-19-2006, 11:20 AM
Insert Coin: Be careful, popular girls are inherently evil. lawlz.

This sounds like corny advice, but the truth is that all you can do is be yourself. Talk to her, but don't rush things, and don't let yourself be a secret admirer. Take it slow, take it easy, and just be cool, maybe even friends with her. That way you won't be a creepy secret admirer, you'll be the boy that likes her. And maybe she'll like you too.

But if she doesn't like you, then move the fuck on!

adombomb222
12-19-2006, 11:44 AM
Just be yourself. Do what you like because you like it and don't attempt to mimic anyone else. In the long run, this will work out for you.

Unless you're a nerd. Then you're just screwed.

Ha! I Love it!

Tizzalicious
12-19-2006, 11:52 AM
Wha? What are you talking about?

You once posted some thread about this girl and her dad died or something. Or maybe that wasn't you. Or maybe you forgot because you made it up. Or it was a girl who asked you to come up and had sex with you.

killer_queen
12-19-2006, 11:53 AM
Secret admirers are <3. It's so fun to make fun of them.

But you, don't ever let her do it. It might affect your whole love life in high school.

Endymion
12-19-2006, 11:55 AM
hint: you're not good enough for her. cut your losses and find a fatty.

sKratch
12-19-2006, 11:56 AM
I knew to click when I saw an Endymion reply. I was expecting something more hentai or horse porn related, though.

Nineteen Seventy Nine
12-19-2006, 12:06 PM
Don't waste any opportunities to talk to her, that helps. I don't want to offend you or anything, but have you hung out with her outside school? If so, great, do it some more and try hard to start more conversations with her than the other guys, without being annoying.

See, I'm scared of denial and I always waited to see if she liked me before I'd ask her out.

Seventh grade, I just got out of the "loser" clique and just made it in the "cool" one. I made friends with the ladies, nothing more, unless they wanted more. Sixth grade, I was completely stupid and did the whole secret admirer thing. I am very thankful I still have friends today.

Good luck, my friend.
--
I never understood the whole "be yourself" thing. I don't know how I'd use that bit of advice to my advantage, to be honest. Do you all mean "Don't pretend to be her boyfriend."?

Paint_It_Black
12-19-2006, 12:06 PM
You once posted some thread about this girl and her dad died or something. Or maybe that wasn't you.

Yeah, I think he did something like that. And it was somehow church related.

adombomb222
12-19-2006, 12:14 PM
Dating in high school sucks, everyone gives you the persona that everyone in the entire school actually gives a shit about you and you girlfriend/boy friend. When in reality it just you're friends and hers/his friends who care or even really know. Unless one of are in the "popular" crowd or one of you are a cheerleader or football/soccer/base ball player.

My dilemma is that I like her a lot and she likes me a lot, and Iím sure weíd go out. But we live way too fucking far to have a meaningful relationship, and neither of us can drive yet. Plus she currently has a boyfriend. And then the girl Iím attracted to at school is around me and my friends all the time, we talk a lot, I just donít think we click.

Lodat225
12-19-2006, 01:29 PM
You once posted some thread about this girl and her dad died or something. Or maybe that wasn't you. Or maybe you forgot because you made it up. Or it was a girl who asked you to come up and had sex with you.

Yeah, that was true... and it was back when i thought the BBS were the shit.

Venom Symbiote
12-19-2006, 01:44 PM
Find a way to elevate yourself to the "cool kids" if you're so worried about that aspect of it.

If that's too big of a deal, find someone in your self-imposed lower class level.

Endymion
12-19-2006, 02:35 PM
I knew to click when I saw an Endymion reply. I was expecting something more hentai or horse porn related, though.

however odd it may sound, i'm growing bored of horse porn.

Oxygene
12-19-2006, 02:40 PM
You have to approach the thing like you've got nothing to lose.. if she likes you great, if she doesn't that's cool too.. there are a billion other chicks out there, so it doesn't make much of a difference. The main thing is talk to her, get to know her, and don't act weird around her, don't try to impress her, be a good listener. As someone has said, there is no way you can make someone like you, you have a shot, but you can't know for certain wether or not she'll respond.. if you hang out with her enough (don't obsess over her, make a conscious effort not to), and be nice to her, and you get the feeling she might be interested, sooner or later the opportunity to make a move will arise, and if you make the move you'll know if she wants to be with you or not.. if she doesn't just slit her throat and move on :D

Insert Coin
12-19-2006, 04:40 PM
You have to approach the thing like you've got nothing to lose.. if she likes you great, if she doesn't that's cool too.. there are a billion other chicks out there, so it doesn't make much of a difference. The main thing is talk to her, get to know her, and don't act weird around her, don't try to impress her, be a good listener. As someone has said, there is no way you can make someone like you, you have a shot, but you can't know for certain wether or not she'll respond.. if you hang out with her enough (don't obsess over her, make a conscious effort not to), and be nice to her, and you get the feeling she might be interested, sooner or later the opportunity to make a move will arise, and if you make the move you'll know if she wants to be with you or not.. if she doesn't just slit her throat and move on :D

Thanks. This helped the most.

Thanks to everybody too.

also we do talk, we're in a science group together and everything. im not a "loser" too, just normal since im in the soccer team. thanks you guys.


EDIT: she does have a boyfriend though. but he treats her like shit. he calls her bitch and stuff. it makes me mad for some reason. he even pushes her around. physically and ... mentally? yyou know what i mean/

adombomb222
12-19-2006, 04:46 PM
Something came to my attention that I donít believe anyone has really pointed out, but become friends with her friends. I mean her male and female friends, if they like you they wont have anything bad to say about you, unless you screw her over down the line.

DeAtHsTaR
12-19-2006, 05:11 PM
WHip out your dick and slap her with it. She'll be yours for the taking. If not, it just isn't meant to be.

Paint_It_Black
12-19-2006, 05:41 PM
she does have a boyfriend though. but he treats her like shit. he calls her bitch and stuff. it makes me mad for some reason. he even pushes her around. physically and ... mentally? yyou know what i mean/

They like that. If you want a girlfriend you have to treat them like that. The bitches. They like it.

All About Eve
12-19-2006, 08:13 PM
They like that. If you want a girlfriend you have to treat them like that. The bitches. They like it.
The man's married, listen to him. Why do you think all the violent bastards get laid, anyways?

Lodat225
12-19-2006, 08:16 PM
They like that. If you want a girlfriend you have to treat them like that. The bitches. They like it.

Hahahaha .

Nineteen Seventy Nine
12-19-2006, 08:22 PM
if she wants to be with you or not.. if she doesn't just slit her throat and move on :D

Thanks. This helped the most.

In the news: Jersey Teen Slices Throat of Rejecting Girl


EDIT: she does have a boyfriend though. but he treats her like shit. he calls her bitch and stuff. it makes me mad for some reason. he even pushes her around. physically and ... mentally? yyou know what i mean/

I can't think of this kind of stuff actually existing, the way you are explaining it.

However, it is how you get women. They like surprises too, just grab her chest when she least expects it.

Lodat225
12-19-2006, 08:25 PM
In the news: Jersey Teen Slices Throat of Rejecting Girl



I can't think of this kind of stuff actually existing, the way you are explaining it.

However, it is how you get women. They like surprises too, just grab her chest when she least expects it.

HAHAHAHAHA. That actually made me LOL. The news thingy.

Paint_It_Black
12-19-2006, 08:30 PM
HAHAHAHAHA. That actually made me LOL. The news thingy.

Me too. Finally we have something in common besides our name.

Oxygene
12-20-2006, 01:06 AM
Thanks. This helped the most.

Thanks to everybody too.

Sure no problem, you might also want to listen to the "become friends with her friends" advice, that's also a great idea... the fact that some chicks go out with guys that don't deserve them is of no surprise... it happens all the time. Women are weird, and are attracted to dumbfucks who don't give a shit about them... whatever.

khaaaaan
12-20-2006, 01:13 AM
I had no clue the tv-shows were right:eek:

Duskygrin
12-20-2006, 09:02 AM
What do you mean by the "cool" guys, the "popular" guys, & the "losers"? What is it that's considered "cool behaviour" stateside? Those who laugh loudest? Those to whom you cannot say "hello, how are you?" unless you're part of the same band, because if you're not their mates they'll just give you the cold shoulder or possibly stare at you as though you were demented to even say "hello"? The ones whose friendship, all things being equal, is the most sought after in the class?

And the "losers"? Who are they? Those who keep themselves to themselves? Soft-spoken & whose laughter doesn't echo all down the corridors? Those whom noone says "hello" to? The transparent guys whom you feel like patting on the shoulder & say "poor boy" to? Or more simply, the ugly ones?

JohnnyNemesis
12-20-2006, 09:14 AM
What do you mean by the "cool" guys, the "popular" guys, & the "losers"? What is it that's considered "cool behaviour" stateside? Those who laugh loudest? Those to whom you cannot say "hello, how are you?" unless you're part of the same band, because if you're not their mates they'll just give you the cold shoulder or possibly stare at you as though you were demented to even say "hello"? The ones whose friendship, all things being equal, is the most sought after in the class?

Nah, the cool guys here are the ones who write in Victorian prose in regular, casual conversation, overusing words that died in the 16th century.

Oxygene
12-20-2006, 09:28 AM
Nah, the cool guys here are the ones who write in Victorian prose in regular, casual conversation, overusing words that died in the 16th century.

really I always thought they were the dude who ended up selling insurance, or working at hardy's, at a dead end job, till they die.

no_way
12-20-2006, 12:04 PM
Girls like those kind of boys who can think, be reasonable, be good people, and funny when it's required. In your case (not like I know you or anything), use the best of your personality and show it off for her to see it. But not too much; my last boyfriend thought his best quality was being funny, ugh. So annoying... Well you know, use your brain.


Nah, the cool guys here are the ones who write in Victorian prose in regular, casual conversation, overusing words that died in the 16th century.

Heh heh heh heh, I laughed out loud

Camilamazed
12-20-2006, 12:07 PM
I don't know if this is part of the culture, but it seems to me that guys from other countries have a lot of trouble when asking girls out. It is very much easier around here.

So, let me know, when a boy asks a girl out (there), does it seem that he has intentions with her? Because here it's a little bit different. Even the girl asks the boy out if she wants. As friends (At first), and then, if they enjoy each other, it leads to other things.

JohnnyNemesis
12-20-2006, 12:08 PM
Cammy: It happens in that way and in many other ways here. But here, when you use the phrase "ask a girl out", it usually implies that you like her more than just as friends.

Nina
12-20-2006, 12:11 PM
The whole "dating" thing in America is really complicated and retarded. But people over there got used to it so much that they dont even realize that anymore.

Camilamazed
12-20-2006, 12:12 PM
Cammy: It happens in that way and in many other ways here. But here, when you use the phrase "ask a girl out", it usually implies that you like her more than just as friends.

So, If I want to simply go out with a friend there, how do I do that?:confused:

killer_queen
12-20-2006, 12:19 PM
I don't know what would I do if I go some other country. Going on a date with someone you don't know and having sex on the first date? I can't even imagine it. I can't even imagine having sex on the tenth date.

Until now I've always rejected people who asked me out without knowing me. Because it always sounds like "omgomg, I liked your body. Will you let me touch it?" I guess, I'm a little scared of this dating thing.

no_way
12-20-2006, 12:22 PM
So, If I want to simply go out with a friend there, how do I do that?:confused:

I guess you don't ask that in such "formal" way or tone, maybe you don't even ask it. When you know you're going out with someone as a friend is because you are friends. Didn't you ever watch those retarded Warner series? :o

Paint_It_Black
12-20-2006, 03:59 PM
I'm a little scared of this dating thing.

That's cute, wanna date?

Oxygene
12-20-2006, 05:19 PM
Dating, and getting chicks is easy
1) once you get the hang of it
2) you become capable of realizing who it's worth to spend time and effort on and who to leave the fuck alone...

adombomb222
12-20-2006, 07:09 PM
Ok, I am one of the most outgoing kids you may meet, at least thatís what all the people who know me and hang out with me say. The also say I am of the most loving caring and one of the nicest people they have ever meet, once they have spent a few years around me. And I know Iím outgoing, I do stuff and not even know it, I have a lot of friends who hate me or love me for that and I have a lot of girls who are my friends. I donít belong to any clique and I get along with everyone. So my friends think that it is weird when I want to ask a girl out. I donít think I t matter who you are, American, German, man or woman, companionship is something we yearn for. I think it the ďbutterfliesĒ in our stomach that makes us nerves, we like someone so much and we donít want to mess this up. Iím not sure why I have a hard to asking out the girls I like, I love them all, I truly to most of them I wont ask out because I cherish the relationship we already have and I rather not have an dating relationship ruin that. Also the girls Iím really attracted to, do give me those butterflies when ever I contemplate asking them out.

Little_Miss_1565
12-20-2006, 07:29 PM
The whole "dating" thing in America is really complicated and retarded. But people over there got used to it so much that they dont even realize that anymore.

What, people in other countries don't date?

JohnnyNemesis
12-20-2006, 08:49 PM
The whole "dating" thing in America is really complicated and retarded. But people over there got used to it so much that they dont even realize that anymore.

Oh trust me, we definitely realize how complicated and retarded it is. We just have no choice but to deal with it cause that's the way it is :(


So, If I want to simply go out with a friend there, how do I do that?:confused:

Make yourself clear in terms of tone, etc.

Thomas
12-20-2006, 09:18 PM
I am deathly afraid of asking girls out. All three years of middle school, there was this one girl who I liked a lot a lot. I was just so uch of a freaking nerd that I basically worshiped her from afar. I was quite creepy at the time.

I have only had the nerve to ask someone out once, and we have been together for almost 7 months now and I couldn't be happier. Actually, I didn' even completely ask her out. I had to do it in a letter. haha. That's not a bad idea, though. It's a lot easier.

Betty
12-20-2006, 10:20 PM
Get drunk and hit on her. That's pretty much how it works for me now.

Paint_It_Black
12-20-2006, 10:50 PM
I don't see dating in America as being any different than in the UK. How does it vary from other places?

Nina
12-21-2006, 12:25 AM
What, people in other countries don't date?


I don't see dating in America as being any different than in the UK. How does it vary from other places?

This is how people have explained it to me (from a guys point of view...because I had to choose):

First you ask the girl for a "date". But that doesnt mean that you're dating. You go out with her. once, twice, whatever. If it goes well and if both agree, you "date" her then. Yet "dating" a person doesnt mean actually being commited to the person. You still see other people, possibly "date" them. Some even sleep with the people they are dating. Okay. And then if both want it, you agree to be in a "relationship", which means you are actually together and dont see other people.

Again, this is how I've had it explained to me, by different people and thus more than once. I read people's journals and have also observed it without having it explained. Another proof is TV shows produced in America.

yeah, I'm done.


I honestly think it's ridiculous. Even if only 2/5 of all teenagers do it like that I'd still be disgusted.

In Germany you just date as in, have a relationship. There arent any things in between, especially not seeing other people (unless you're an asshole).

Oxygene
12-21-2006, 01:24 AM
What, people in other countries don't date?

Well we aren't obligated to get written statements of consent after a blowjob and before intercourse, to go ahead and do it :)

But on a serious note, I never really dated in the states so I wouldn't know.. although I did know some young teen couples there so... but it didn't seem all that different to me. Although what nina is saying could kinda be true, from what I observed, then again not everything on tv is real *gasp*.
But yeah.. here you go on dates when your single, and I guess the unwritten law is once you hooked up (kissed) you're pretty much considered committed to the relation ship untill you obviously break it off...

T-6005
12-21-2006, 01:40 AM
Get drunk and hit on her. That's pretty much how it works for me now.
Where's my cheering smilie?

Because that's the way I've always done it.

It's a win-win.

Oh, and a little surprise boob-grabbing doesn't hurt, either.

Paint_It_Black
12-21-2006, 02:19 AM
Nina, so how does that work?

I mean, if a girl agreed to go see a movie with me and maybe grab a bite to eat after, does that mean I'm not supposed to do that with any other girls unless I never intend to see the first girl again?

I just don't see the point of being immediately comitted to the person until you have a chance to find out if you've really got any connection.

killer_queen
12-21-2006, 02:33 AM
That's cute, wanna date?
It's even more scary.:(


Actually what I like about dating is what Nina hates. People who think that we have a relationship after going out a couple of times are incredibly annoying. The best way to know a person is staying alone with him/her. So it's just a lot more healthier to go out a few times and then decide what to do.

Vera
12-21-2006, 02:53 AM
The only cultural difference I know when it comes to dating in US vs Europe is that some foreign exchange students from Finland, living a year in the US were interviewed once and the girls found it odd that guys would ask them out without the intention of becoming romantically involved. Like going on a date was just something they did to get to know the girl better, but they weren't really looking for a girlfriend in them.

I guess similar practises take place in Europe but it's not really known as 'dating'.

I dunno. I have no proof that this is the way it actually goes.

Nina
12-21-2006, 06:36 AM
Nina, so how does that work?

I mean, if a girl agreed to go see a movie with me and maybe grab a bite to eat after, does that mean I'm not supposed to do that with any other girls unless I never intend to see the first girl again?

I just don't see the point of being immediately comitted to the person until you have a chance to find out if you've really got any connection.


the girls found it odd that guys would ask them out without the intention of becoming romantically involved. Like going on a date was just something they did to get to know the girl better, but they weren't really looking for a girlfriend in them.


Vera explained it better than I did. When friends want to hang out, it's simply called "friends hanging out", not "dating". I guess it's a matter of definition. It's not like people dont hang out in Europe o.0

The whole thing still irritates the hell out of me. As I said, it's a lot more complicated than it could be.

Maybe it's uncommon in the US to be in a relationship immediatelly after you've met. Is it like that? It isnt very uncommon here as far as I know, but of course not the only option.

Izie
12-21-2006, 07:01 AM
There should be a discernation here. What Nina is describing sounds very much like dating rituals in high school. But I do think that ends when people leave high school. There, mystery solved.

- Per

Little_Miss_1565
12-21-2006, 07:50 AM
The only cultural difference I know when it comes to dating in US vs Europe is that some foreign exchange students from Finland, living a year in the US were interviewed once and the girls found it odd that guys would ask them out without the intention of becoming romantically involved. Like going on a date was just something they did to get to know the girl better, but they weren't really looking for a girlfriend in them.

Nononono, people ask eachother on a date BECAUSE they do want to get romantically involved. The occasional period of keeping things very casual is so that if it turns out you're just not meant to be, it's a lot easier to extricate yourself from the situation.

Paint_It_Black
12-21-2006, 07:55 AM
- Per

Don't do that. Please. That's just too much.

And 1565 is right.

JohnnyNemesis
12-21-2006, 10:23 AM
Well we aren't obligated to get written statements of consent after a blowjob and before intercourse, to go ahead and do it :)

I don't quite get this joke, but I think that it might be funny if I did. I feel like I'm missing out.

Little_Miss_1565
12-21-2006, 10:46 AM
I think it's a joke about how Americans take the issue of consent too seriously. I guess if you <3 rape it's best to live in other countries or something?

JohnnyNemesis
12-21-2006, 10:48 AM
Ohhhhhhhh, now I get it. And now I'm loling not at his joke, but at other countries and how they wanna rape, lawlz.

Oxygene
12-21-2006, 11:53 AM
I think it's a joke about how Americans take the issue of consent too seriously. I guess if you <3 rape it's best to live in other countries or something?

That's actually being closed minded and one sided... it was meant to say that it's ridiculos to have to ask for consent in writing and/or orally (hahaha)... legally, in some states in the us if you sit on a guys dick and ride it till it falls off, if he didn't consent with prior you he raped you. that's non-sense. talking to a woman for more than 10 mins is considered sexual harrassment at the work place. that's nuts... shit like that makes people act stupid when it comes to the other gender...

JohnnyNemesis
12-21-2006, 12:00 PM
legally, in some states in the us if you sit on a guys dick and ride it till it falls off, if he didn't consent with prior you he raped you. that's non-sense. talking to a woman for more than 10 mins is considered sexual harrassment at the work place.

None of that is even remotely true, exgaeration or no exageration. Stop reveling in ignorance.

Oxygene
12-21-2006, 12:13 PM
None of that is even remotely true, exgaeration or no exageration. Stop reveling in ignorance.

well then so much for your news being worth a fuck...

JohnnyNemesis
12-21-2006, 12:19 PM
"LAWLZ, it's everyone's fault but my own that I don't understand things!"

Prox
12-21-2006, 12:27 PM
All women are looking for something different in a man. There is no one way how to act.

Nina
12-21-2006, 01:05 PM
That's actually being closed minded and one sided... it was meant to say that it's ridiculos to have to ask for consent in writing and/or orally (hahaha)... legally, in some states in the us if you sit on a guys dick and ride it till it falls off, if he didn't consent with prior you he raped you. that's non-sense. talking to a woman for more than 10 mins is considered sexual harrassment at the work place. that's nuts... shit like that makes people act stupid when it comes to the other gender...

You're not really serious, right?

Little_Miss_1565
12-21-2006, 02:04 PM
well then so much for your news being worth a fuck...

What the fuck American news have you been reading?! Ain't no one had to sign shit for a ride on Highway 1565.

JohnnyNemesis
12-21-2006, 02:33 PM
^That's a lie, and I know that first hand. My wrist cramped so much from signing and initialing all them papers that I was unable to give you the sexin' you deserved.

Maybe that was your masterplan...

EMehl6
12-21-2006, 02:59 PM
This thread is full of win.

Oxygene
12-21-2006, 03:01 PM
The rape thing I heard on dateline NBC around 95-96 where because of this whole he-said she-said some redneck state wanted to introduce a law where both parties are obligated to clearly consent to intercourse orally for it not to be considered rape.. wether or not that was passed is irrelevant, since it just depicts the kind of shit a dating person has to put up with.

The 10 min sexual harrasment thing happend to the father of a good friend of mine, who worked at the NIH, he almost got in serious trouble for talking to a woman for more than 10 minutes...

there you go.. jesus it's hard to get a point across...

JohnnyNemesis
12-21-2006, 03:07 PM
You have absolutely no critical thinking skills and it's hilarious.

Oxygene
12-21-2006, 03:14 PM
You have absolutely no critical thinking skills and it's hilarious.

Or maybe I don't google my ass off and cut and paste to argue.. besides wether or not that's true is irrelevant like I said...go listen to some of carlins material on the difference between the european and american attitude towards the subject. Maybe that'll help you.. My prayers are with you understanding this on a this one...

Little_Miss_1565
12-21-2006, 03:19 PM
Oxy, stupid people propose stupid laws all the time. 99% of them are dead on arrival because they are too stupid to live. Just because someone says "There ought to be a law!" doesn't mean it's something that the entire American dating community has to deal with.

And Ricky, if the signing and initially cramped your wrist, then CLEARLY you are not ready for me.

JohnnyNemesis
12-21-2006, 03:21 PM
^Ohhh, don't even get me started on how unprepared YOU are for ME, prettylady.

Highway 1565 is NOT ready for my vehicle, lawlz.

EMehl6
12-21-2006, 03:42 PM
This thread is coming closer and closer to becoming a soft core porn.

Oxygene
12-22-2006, 01:08 AM
Oxy, stupid people propose stupid laws all the time. 99% of them are dead on arrival because they are too stupid to live. Just because someone says "There ought to be a law!" doesn't mean it's something that the entire American dating community has to deal with.

And Ricky, if the signing and initially cramped your wrist, then CLEARLY you are not ready for me.

The whole thing that got side tracked into the rape was basically the point, that people in the states aren't as laid back relationshipwise as us europeans... which co-incides with my experience.. so um.. if I got something wrong sorry, but I still think I made a valid point, even if not with the proper arguments...

T-6005
12-22-2006, 02:00 AM
I've missed the last few posts since I've been in a pubescent daze of "It can FALL OFF?!?!? OMGWTFM8!"

But now I am calm, albeit slightly warier of vaginas than I used to be.

Sin Studly
12-22-2006, 03:49 AM
http://www.rotten.com/library/sex/vagina-dentata/vdentata1.jpg

Little_Miss_1565
12-22-2006, 05:48 AM
The whole thing that got side tracked into the rape was basically the point, that people in the states aren't as laid back relationshipwise as us europeans... which co-incides with my experience.. so um.. if I got something wrong sorry, but I still think I made a valid point, even if not with the proper arguments...

I'm really confused. Your point was that Americans are so uptight that they have to sign consent forms. Considering how many people I know who will fuck whomever whenever, there's nothing true about what you said. With all due respect, maybe American girls just don't like you?

Duskygrin
12-22-2006, 06:29 AM
I saw a parody of a guy & a girl, preppy sort, who bring in their lawyers to make sure the consent forms are signed. Since this parody is american, I dare say it has some grain of truth in it.

Oh, & I also heard sth about how ridiculously easy it is in the us for a woman to sue a guy. If both are alone in a lift & he starts talking to her: harrassment claim!!!

Now maybe it is exaggerated & a joke but it corroborates the general view. No other country would be talked about this way.

Sin Studly
12-22-2006, 06:52 AM
I'm really confused. Your point was that Americans are so uptight that they have to sign consent forms. Considering how many people I know who will fuck whomever whenever, there's nothing true about what you said. With all due respect, maybe American girls just don't like you?

It's a known stereotype throughout the rest of the world, although 'uptight' is not the right word. We're not saying "omg americans are fags cause they don't like rape", it's just a social commentary on how pathetically litigacious everything in America is.

Overworked & Underfucked
12-22-2006, 01:28 PM
Sin Studly, that picture reminds me of Clerks 2. Pillowpants, the pussy troll... so funny!

Lodat225
12-22-2006, 04:27 PM
Sin Studly, that picture reminds me of Clerks 2. Pillowpants, the pussy troll... so funny!

Hahahah, i saw that! Hilarious.

Endymion
12-22-2006, 04:56 PM
http://www.csulb.edu/~rjames/classic/1133672248710.jpg

Lodat225
12-22-2006, 05:08 PM
Hahahhaah! That made me laugh so hard.

EMehl6
12-22-2006, 07:19 PM
Hahahhaah! That made me laugh so hard.

Did you intend a pun with that?

Lodat225
12-22-2006, 07:20 PM
Did you intend a pun with that?

Uh, no. A pun? Where?

Oxygene
12-23-2006, 01:45 AM
I'm really confused. Your point was that Americans are so uptight that they have to sign consent forms. Considering how many people I know who will fuck whomever whenever, there's nothing true about what you said. With all due respect, maybe American girls just don't like you?

Well considering that the most substantial amount of time I've spent in the states after puberty, was with my girlfriend (or committed to a relationship), I'm assuming american girls weren't all that interested in me yeah.. I draw on the experiences of my friends, some of which (well one dude in particular comes to mind) get tons of chicks, but still most of them are immigrants, and where ever I've been I've never seen women as laid back as in europe.. if you go to a beach women don't take their top off in the states.. like noone. I'm sure that there are quite a few sluts (comes to mind why you hang out with so many btw.. ;) and if I'm ever single again and go to the states, I'd like to meet your friends ), but on average I still see average jane as uptight semi religious ms emancipation... who'll only fucks rich lawyers or something.