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    I can't decide what I think the relationship should be between love and sex. Obviously we are all somewhat different and there is no right or wrong answer. There is only what works for you. But I don't know what works for me so I'm curious what other people think about it.

    I've really only experienced love and sex as part of a package (lol package). For me the two might be intrinsically linked at this point. I can see the appeal of casual sex but I suspect it would leave me feeling unfulfilled (lol I wanna be filled). But then being single and having no sex at all is not much fun. Also, I accept that arguments can be made for casual sex being more fun than sex within a committed relationship. I just don't know.

    Thoughts? Again, there's no right or wrong answer. I'm just curious (lol bi-curious).
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    Relationship sex is a lot better than casual sex, I think.

    It's been a few years since I have been in a relationship, and although every now and then I'll sleep with someone, I usually end up feeling shit about it. Because it's usually crap.

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    can't decide...pfff...marry her!

    everyone shout: we want a bbs wedding! we want a bbs wedding!
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    Californication, go watch it, no seriously.
    It shows the difference between love / sex best!
    Turn the lights on.

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    Quote Originally Posted by OC HAU View Post
    can't decide...pfff...marry her!

    everyone shout: we want a bbs wedding! we want a bbs wedding!
    I volunteer as tribute.

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    I keep trying to type the typical "In a relationship, they can learn the things that make you tick." response. However, I can't say that my own experience supports that. In six years together, my ex didn't learn a damn thing. So, maybe I'm starting to see the appeal of casual sex.
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    Or what? Or you'll leave as soon as someone returns your rudeness and delete all your posts? I'm so scared.

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