anarchism (n.) The theory or doctrine that all forms of government are oppressive and undesirable and should be abolished.
anarchism (n.) Active resistance and terrorism against the state, as used by some anarchists.
anarchism (n.) Rejection of all forms of coercive control and authority:“He was inclined to anarchism; he hated system and organization and uniformity” (Bertrand Russell)
It's also pretty clear from even some of the most basic pamphlets that Anarchists are not opposed to social structure, merely structures that are coercive and built on subjugation of individuals'. Simply put, as i said, that no power structure should ever be seen as inherently legitimate, that they should have to meet the burden of proof of they're necessity, which is usually lacking. Nothing wrong with the word, just the audience. I mean, just ask an Anarchist what they actually believe in, or read the literature, it's very accessible.
You used a modified spelling which I'm sure youy think is cute or something, but the word is the same. Of course the issue is not the word, but it's context. Second, theres' no distinction between "faggot", "nigger", "gook", "spic", etc. If you say one, you might as well be consistent. Economically speaking, I'm poor/working class, but I have more "class" than to use such language in that way.