Well... people say I shouldn't say what I would do if I had not been put in that position, and I think you are right, actually. I can't be against something I have almost no knowledge of and I have never had to use! A friend of mine got pregnant and is kicked out of her house unless she gets an abortion, even though she is sixteen with no where to go so in the worst of circumstances, even though I want to be against it, when I am in a relationship I might need to get one in the future.(I never want to though)
Answer to question two. no.
Answer to question three... yes you have defined murder, but a fetus only has the potential to be a human life.
Answer to question four... You are wrong, you can get pregnant, maybe not physically.. but if you impregnate a woman, that baby is as much yours as it is hers. When i had a scare, my boyfriend was just as important as i was when deciding what we would do if the test came back positive. He would have been just as pregnant as me. As for the not thinking i can afford a child. i am a 17 year old student who is on minimum wage and works only 4 hours a week. of course i cant afford it, not to mention that my parents would kill me. But at the end of the day, i never miss a pill, i go to the doctors every 6 months, we dont take risks. yes, contraception fails, but at the end of the day, sex is an important part of a relationship and i think you are being very naive by saying "if you dont want a baby, dont have sex"
I'll give you a legitimate reason. People are horny, ignorant fucks. You'll never get abstinence to work in our society.
I wrote a four word letter.
Abortion sends babies to "God" faster.