I still hate people

[UgLy_eLf]

Cant really "grow out" of something that's completely true. People are idiots and always will be, whether or not you have the patience for it is really what you need to work on.

[Paint_It_Black]

Thirty years old and still hating over here. I meet people every single day who make me loathe humanity. Most days, though, I also meet one or two people who surprise me by performing some small act of decency towards another human being. Love those people. My hatred of all the obnoxious people I come into contact with at least allows me to feel genuine affection for anyone I meet who can behave like a reasonable human being.

I generally expect the worst from anyone I don't know. Seems like a sensible default position to take.

[Isolated Fury]

Ok, It actually took me a while to think about how to respond to this. It's not so much that I hate other people. And I don't think that I expect the worst from everyone.

I think the problem is that I'm a horribly judgmental person. I take one first impression and extrapolate the wildest conclusions about a person. Oh, you're wearing all white Air Force 1s? You must bottom-of-the-barrel, fashionable trash who beats his girlfriend and get belligerent at social gatherings because you grew up without a dad.

So I might hate people. Then again, I might just hate the first thing I notice about them.

[Free?]

I think the problem is that I'm a horribly judgmental person. I take one first impression and extrapolate the wildest conclusions about a person. Oh, you're wearing all white Air Force 1s? You must bottom-of-the-barrel, fashionable trash who beats his girlfriend and get belligerent at social gatherings because you grew up without a dad.

...and thus, thee needs to be isolated.

[Isolated Fury]

True...

Or the rest of the world needs "cleansed."

[Retard]

My dad wears all white shoes.... is it specifically just Air Force ones or is it any all white shoe?

The human Race is a giant festering pile of shit. But there are good people thrown in here and there.

[Isolated Fury]

My dad wears all white shoes.... is it specifically just Air Force ones or is it any all white shoe?

The human Race is a giant festering pile of shit. But there are good people thrown in here and there.

Everyone's dad wears white shoes. Usually extra wide New Balances, Nike Air Monarchs, or some shitty Reeboks. If none of those, then he's probably buying shoes from WalMart or from a store where he knows one of the employees/there's a teenage girl that he likes to see bend down in front of him.

Regardless, you've missed the point, Retard.

[bighead384]

Many people claim that if you have fulfilling relationships, you won't feel this way. But I'd say with the amount of people who suck, you need a bit of luck to meet people who deserve friendship. Furthermore, just because YOU have what you want doesn't mean you should ignore how crappy humanity is as a whole.

[Llamas]

I believe that the attitude you give off about people is what you attract. I've definitely noticed fluctuations throughout my life - in times when I was super pessimistic about life and about people, I attracted shitty people cause I had a shitty attitude. Nowadays, I feel pretty positively about people and generally see good in most people. I tend to attribute the fact that I've met so many great people since I moved recently to my attitude toward people.

[JohnnyNemesis]

A more active social life + not taking too many things as seriously helps.