Why is it that when you have a girlfriend, chicks are all over you? I don't know if it goes the same for girls with boyfriends, but If I was a douchebag, I would have cheated on my gf 3 or 4 times this month. I mean, I am good looking, usually chicks come talk to me in bars and clubs, I've never had to go talk to girls because they come to me. I know I sound very cocky, but it's true, I'm used to that, but lately, girls hit on me and after some minutes of chatting, they ask me if I want to fuck with them. I don't know if it's a "lucky" streak, but girls never did this suggestion to me, I mean, when I was single, girls came to me, talked for a while, sometimes danced or rocked a little, and then made out, few times I took it to the bedroom, it just used to "happen", but now the seduction rate has increased these months and they don't play the game anymore, they just tell me "we should fuck" or something like that.
Three or four weeks ago, this girl I didn't know threw a party, I was with my friends and she came to us because of friends in common, we started talking because that's what you do at parties, meet new people and talk. After an hour or so, she came to me and said "You have a girlfriend!", I said that yes I did, and she said it was a bummer because she really liked me; after a couple hours she was drunk and told me that it couldn't be, that we should go to her bedroom, and that the fact that I was so respectful about my girlfriend made me more desirable... she was all over me, and didn't let me enjoy the party, I was polite and told her that sorry, but it wasn't gonna happen, I apologized, I was gentle and polite, until I had to leave because she wouldn't leave me alone. I was pissed
The next weekend, I went with my friends to a bar, then to a party very late, and this girl I knew was a little hammered, and started hitting on me, but not that straightforward like the other girl, until she told me that I was very pretty (not a very cool thing to say to a guy, but whatever...), followed by "so... what up, Mr. Fideos? (that's how she calls me, my nickname is "Fideo", which meeans "Noodle", there's no resemblance to TO's Noodles, I'm just kinda skinny) I don't know what's the translation to english for the phrase she used, but it's understood that it is an invitation to make out/fuck. Eventually, she went to bed because she was the host as well and got drunk.
Last friday, I went to another party, and one of my friends met two girls, then he introduced me to them as a "boring guy with girlfriend" (I was sitting on the floor because I didn't have much sleep the night before), so we started talking, then he took one of the girls for a beer or something and her friend stayed with me. We talked about our jobs, politics, until she popped out this question: "So... you and your girlfriend... are you guys exclusive?", followed by her thoughts about human relationships, and natural urges and that kind of stuff, I told her yes, me and my girfriend are exclusive and gave her my reasons and things like that. She told me I was outdated (lol), that you could be with somebody, love that person and be with other people too at the same time. We continued the discussion until I told her that if I didn't have a girlfriend, I would totally respond to her flirts, and she told me that it was ok, but that she wanted to fuck with me because she thought I was very handsome and liked me a lot and then she continued trying to change my mind, until I politely said it wouldn't happen and then she left with her friend. After that, the girl from the week before told me not to worry, that I had a friend (referring to her) that I could always fuck with if I wanted.
Can someone explain this phenomenon to me?? Like I said, I'm used to girls hitting on me, but not this frequently and this straightforward. I've heard before that when you have a girlfriend, you become a girl magnet, but I thought it was one of those random sayings people just repeat like retarded tools, but now I became the girl magnet (trololol).
If this happened to me a year ago maybe I would have an STD or a kid, or just a lot of sexperience.