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    Red face How to cope with grief...!

    Does anyone here know how? I'm so sad to even start off a thread about it. It's like my whole existence is empty and I cannot find my way to the light. Please help me out by wisdom or anything....then everything will be ok. It shall take me like two years to actually accept it, my mother's death. Haven't gone to visit her and leave her some pretty flowers. I will the next time. She was my one and only sun shine, my whole world, my loveable existance, my best friend, my father misses her dearly; but I know we must move on and look forward to the years passing us by. I hate every pathetic holiday. Special x-mas/Her B-Day & Mother's Day. For the final and last time thank yous. RIP <3333
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    Grief generally describes a state where you lose someone. Who have you lost?
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    Quote Originally Posted by TheJakes84 View Post
    I love my Mother. Rest in peace
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    Yeah, I mostly got this.

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    It was anticlimactic.

    I suppose that while I'm taking time away from being a huge jackass, I should that I'm incredibly sorry, and that there is no real way to deal with this kind of grief.

    Although drinking helps, and going through the grieving rituals helps too. Where I'm from, it's pretty standard. We get together and tell raunchy and hilarious stories about the deceased. Almost invariably a great time, usually followed by singing.
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    Default awwwh!

    Thank you, I just hope your decent knowledge can help me look forward to continue with life. But will I ever see my Mother again?

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    It does seem unlikely.
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    i believe in god in jesus christ name that we will be reunited again. my mother meant the world to me and i love my father/family.
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    And then Sin Studly and Ninth show up to make fun of this guy's dead mom.
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    And then Sin Studly and Ninth show up to make fun of this guy's dead mom.
    I was just thinking the same exact thing. Field day.
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    Sooo...is this iPunk?

    Either way, I'm sorry for your loss. There is bereavement counseling, which I can't personally recommend, but I'd do it if I could. All you can really do in the end is "take it one day at a time". I'm sure you've heard that plenty of times already, but what it meant to me was try not to think of what your life will be without her, and just focus on getting through today for a while. Soon enough, it will become easier to deal with.
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