Well, my mom hasn't been able to find a job for much longer than a year and is now trying to shortsell her house (which she may not even be able to do since the market is still so bad where she lives), and my father's in bankruptcy and may not emerge from it until retirement, if he's able to retire at all. (Which is the main reason I'm working 60+ hours a week, as my youngest sister is still in college.)
Despite all this, I know President Obama had zero to do with my family's predicament, nor is he the reason I was laid off from my corporate job a few years ago forcing me to work from 7 AM to 1 AM in shitty low-paying part time jobs every day until I found permanent work again after several months. Unemployment benefits wouldn't even cover my rent, so that wasn't an option.
I get that you and your family are in a lot of pain. I don't know the exact nature of your pain, as I'm not you. But your family is not the only one in this sort of a situation, and it's natural to wonder why this horrible thing is happening. But I think the GOP is using this fear against people to get the Executive Branch back, even though it's their policies that caused this whole mess and are the reason why Obama's efforts haven't gone far enough.