I lean toward wanting kids, but I've never, ever wanted to have my own/give birth. That's made a bit easier by being gay (less expected that I'd get pregnant), but with modern medicine, I still get a lot of flack for it. I'm still told the instinct will kick in, I'll wanna get pregnant, etc, etc... I'm 29. When the hell is this supposed to happen exactly? :P

I've also been told multiple times that it's wrong not to have your own kids. Like I'm a bad person because I'd rather give a home to kids who don't have one than add more humans to the population...